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Why “2 Hours Away” Means Something Completely Different in the US vs the UK
In America it’s a casual drive. In Britain it’s basically a weekend commitment. We did Stonehenge and Bath as a day trip—meanwhile people in our life were complaining about a 1½-hour drive for a beach day.
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3 days ago3 min read


What Nobody Tells You About Living Without a Schedule
I’ve been free for a while now. Free from the alarm. Free from the commute. Free from the meetings that could have been emails, the emails that should have been nothing, the relentless performance of being productive for someone else’s bottom line. And I want to write something honest about it. Not the version I’d put on camera. The real one. Because freedom, it turns out, is complicated. Finding myself again — slowly The first thing I noticed was that I didn’t know what I ac
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Jun 114 min read


My Foot Hurts. I Know I Need to Go. I Can’t Make the Appointment.
I still haven’t called. I’ve been trying to figure out why.
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Jun 42 min read


I've Never Gone Back. Here's What That Means.
It's the end of May here in the United Kingdom. The evenings are getting longer, that particular British gold light that stretches past 9pm like it's trying to convince you summer is real and permanent. And somewhere in the back of my head, I'm aware that back home, Memorial Day just passed. That somebody grilled something. That somebody drove somewhere. That people I used to know went about the whole ritual of it without me.
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May 294 min read


WHAT AMERICAN HOLIDAYS FEEL LIKE LIVING ABROAD
It's not the big holidays that catch you off guard when you live abroad. It's the specific ones. The ones with a smell to them.
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May 225 min read


An American Watching UK Elections…Here's What I’ve Learned (So Far!)
Then I moved here. And I genuinely did not know there was a UK general election happening until someone mentioned it in passing. I'd gotten a couple of flyers through the letterbox (yes, I've learned the word). That was it!
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May 89 min read


5 Things I Noticed About the Monarchy This Week (As an American in the UK)
After our livestream on Tuesday, I realized I’m still very much wrapping my head around this whole “living under a monarchy” situation. And then King Charles casually shows up in the US this week and suddenly this is my entire personality. I’m Googling lineage charts. I’m saying things like “soft power” out loud. I’m becoming… that American.
So let’s talk about the five things that shocked me most about the British monarchy this week — sprinkled with a few moments where I, a
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May 13 min read


Three Surprising Aspects of British Culture That Americans Often Miss
While it may seem trivial, queuing can be a significant aspect of social interaction. Understanding its importance can enhance your experience in the UK.
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Apr 173 min read


I Didn’t Realise Britain Was Changing Me Until This Happened (UK vs US Life)
I didn’t move to the UK to become someone else.
But somewhere along the way…
I became a version of myself I didn’t even know I needed.
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Apr 32 min read


17 Things I Learned in U.S. Schools That Don’t Hold Up Outside of America
Since living in the UK, I’ve found myself re-examining parts of my upbringing that I never questioned before, especially my education. Not because it was “bad,” but because so many of the assumptions baked into it simply don’t survive contact with the wider world.
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Feb 53 min read


When the Mask Slips: What the Epstein Files Really Did to Us
An American living in the UK reflects on trust, power, and the moment belief finally breaks
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Feb 53 min read


Revolutions Don’t Begin — They Accumulate
Revolutions are not single events with clear beginnings and endings. They are long processes built over time. History shows how pressure, not moments, drives revolutionary change.
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Jan 293 min read


🎭 The Wonderfully Chaotic World of British Pantomime. (British quirk 30/30)
If you’ve ever attended a British pantomime, you’ll know it’s not really a theatre performance.It’s a cultural fever dream wrapped in tinsel, slapstick, and audience participation, fueled by mince pies and the collective December delirium of the entire nation.
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Dec 9, 20252 min read


🍪 Cookie vs. Biscuit (British Quirks 29/30)
If you’ve ever found yourself in a British supermarket confidently asking for “cookies,” only to be led to a tiny aisle of chocolate-chip-specific items while the entire rest of the baked-goods universe is labeled “biscuits,” congratulations—you’ve just stepped into one of the great linguistic battlegrounds of our time. Welcome to the debate of:Cookie vs. Biscuit.
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Dec 2, 20252 min read


🇬🇧 The Art of the British Moan-British quirk 28/30
There’s something quietly tender about the whole ritual.It’s not about being grumpy.It’s
about being human—together.
Because beneath every British moan is a tiny message:
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Nov 25, 20252 min read


The Art of British Self-Defamation: Notes from an American Living Awake in the U.K. (British Quirk 27/30)
It’s not quite humility, not quite insecurity. It’s something more intricate — a kind of social aikido, a preemptive strike of modesty before anyone dares to call you confident.
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Nov 12, 20252 min read


Blazers, Ties, and Knee-High Socks: Discovering British School Uniforms (British Quirks 25/30)
British school uniforms are more than just clothing—they’re part of a long-standing tradition. Some schools have worn the same colors and styles for over a century. Ties, blazers, and badges communicate house affiliation, seniority, and sometimes even sporting prowess.
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Oct 28, 20252 min read


Cheese Rolling, Bog Snorkeling, and More: Discovering Britain’s Strange Festivals (British Quirks 24/30)
My introduction to British eccentric festivals was via the infamous Cooper’s Hill Cheese-Rolling. Imagine hundreds of people hurtling down a steep hill, chasing a wheel of Double Gloucester cheese. People tumble, bounce, and occasionally fly through the air—all for the glory of catching—or at least surviving—the cheese.
I’ll admit it: my first reaction was to laugh, then gasp, then question my own sanity for living somewhere this wild.
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Oct 21, 20252 min read


Wigs in the 21st Century: Why the British Still Wear Them (British Quirks 23/30)
As an American living in the UK, I thought wigs were something you’d only see in history books, costume dramas, or maybe at Halloween parties. But then I discovered that here in Britain, wigs aren’t just relics of the past—they’re still very much alive.
Yes, in the year 2025, there are people who put on white wigs as part of their job.
Not actors, not re-enactors… but judges, barristers, and even members of Parliament during certain ceremonial events.
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Oct 13, 20252 min read


Singing in the Stands: Discovering the Quirky Joy of British Football Chants (British Quirk 22/30)
British life is full of small traditions and quirks that don’t always make sense at first—tea breaks, queuing etiquette, calling cookies “biscuits.” But football chants? They’re a reminder that, here, sport isn’t just a game. It’s community. It’s culture.
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Oct 6, 20252 min read
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