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5 Things I Noticed About the Monarchy This Week (As an American in the UK)
After our livestream on Tuesday, I realized I’m still very much wrapping my head around this whole “living under a monarchy” situation. And then King Charles casually shows up in the US this week and suddenly this is my entire personality. I’m Googling lineage charts. I’m saying things like “soft power” out loud. I’m becoming… that American.
So let’s talk about the five things that shocked me most about the British monarchy this week — sprinkled with a few moments where I, a
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11 hours ago3 min read


Navigating Cultural Differences and Emotional Wellbeing as an American Expat
Moving abroad brings excitement and challenges in equal measure. As an American expat, I quickly learned that adapting to a new culture means more than just understanding local customs—it requires managing emotional wellbeing while navigating unfamiliar social norms. This is especially true for Americans in the UK, where British culture can feel both familiar and surprisingly different. In this post, I want to share insights on how to handle cultural differences and maintain
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Apr 243 min read


Three Surprising Aspects of British Culture That Americans Often Miss
While it may seem trivial, queuing can be a significant aspect of social interaction. Understanding its importance can enhance your experience in the UK.
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Apr 173 min read


Stories from Hickson Diaries: Discovering the Stories of the Hickson Diaries
Moving to a new country is like opening a book filled with blank pages. You’re excited, a little nervous, and curious about what stories you’ll write. For Americans settling in the UK, this journey is full of unique experiences, cultural surprises, and sometimes, a longing for home. That’s where the Hickson Diaries come in. They’re not just stories; they’re a warm, welcoming community that shares the ups and downs of life across the pond. Let me take you on a journey through
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Apr 104 min read


I Didn’t Realise Britain Was Changing Me Until This Happened (UK vs US Life)
I didn’t move to the UK to become someone else.
But somewhere along the way…
I became a version of myself I didn’t even know I needed.
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Apr 32 min read


From Jersey Shore to Global Shores: A Journey of Growth and Discovery
Growing up in New Jersey, "going down the shore" was more than just a summer activity—it was a way of life. The Jersey shore has its own rhythm, its own charm, and a culture that many outside the United States might only know from TV shows or movies. But for me, the real magic wasn’t in the crowded boardwalks or the noisy arcades. It was in the quiet moments, especially off-season, when the beach was empty, and the only sound was the ocean waves crashing against the shore. Th
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Mar 263 min read


Thriving Through Life's Transitions
Life is a bit like the British weather - unpredictable, sometimes sunny, sometimes stormy, and often a mix of both in the same day. Whether you’re moving across the pond, settling into a new city, or simply turning a new page in your story, transitions can feel overwhelming. But here’s the good news: with the right life change strategies, you can not only survive these shifts but truly thrive through them. Let’s dive into some practical, warm, and friendly advice to help you
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Mar 54 min read


The Power of Sharing Your Journey
Life is a winding road filled with unexpected turns, breathtaking views, and sometimes, a few potholes. When you’re navigating a new country, culture, or chapter, it can feel like you’re driving blindfolded. That’s why sharing personal experiences becomes such a powerful tool. It’s like turning on the headlights, helping not only yourself but others find their way too. Whether you’re an American settling into the UK, an Brit interested in a foreigner's POV, or someone fascin
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Feb 254 min read


Overcoming Life's Toughest Challenges: Recovering from Hard Times
Life has a funny way of throwing curveballs when you least expect them. Sometimes, those curveballs feel more like a full-on storm. I’ve been there, and I’m sure you have too. Whether it’s moving to a new country, dealing with loss, or facing unexpected hardships, overcoming life’s toughest challenges is something we all have to learn. Today, I want to share some thoughts and practical tips on recovering from hard times —because if I can do it, so can you. The Reality of Rec
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Feb 203 min read


Discovering the Quirks of British Culture: British Cultural Traits Unveiled
Moving to a new country is like opening a box of chocolates - you never quite know what you're going to get. When I first landed in the UK, I was fascinated by the little things that made British life so uniquely charming. From the way people queue up politely to the endless love for tea, these British cultural traits are a delightful mix of tradition, humour, and a dash of eccentricity. If you’re curious about what makes the UK tick, or just want to feel a bit more at home h
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Feb 144 min read


17 Things I Learned in U.S. Schools That Don’t Hold Up Outside of America
Since living in the UK, I’ve found myself re-examining parts of my upbringing that I never questioned before, especially my education. Not because it was “bad,” but because so many of the assumptions baked into it simply don’t survive contact with the wider world.
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Feb 53 min read


When the Mask Slips: What the Epstein Files Really Did to Us
An American living in the UK reflects on trust, power, and the moment belief finally breaks
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Feb 53 min read


Navigating Major Life Transitions
Life has a funny way of throwing curveballs when we least expect it. One day, you’re settled into your routine, and the next, everything feels like it’s shifting beneath your feet. Whether it’s moving across the pond, starting a new job, or adjusting to a new culture, handling life changes can be both exciting and overwhelming. I’ve been there, and trust me, it’s okay to feel a bit lost sometimes. The good news? You’re not alone, and with a little guidance, you can turn these
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Feb 44 min read


Revolutions Don’t Begin — They Accumulate
Revolutions are not single events with clear beginnings and endings. They are long processes built over time. History shows how pressure, not moments, drives revolutionary change.
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Jan 293 min read


🎭 The Wonderfully Chaotic World of British Pantomime. (British quirk 30/30)
If you’ve ever attended a British pantomime, you’ll know it’s not really a theatre performance.It’s a cultural fever dream wrapped in tinsel, slapstick, and audience participation, fueled by mince pies and the collective December delirium of the entire nation.
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Dec 9, 20252 min read


🍪 Cookie vs. Biscuit (British Quirks 29/30)
If you’ve ever found yourself in a British supermarket confidently asking for “cookies,” only to be led to a tiny aisle of chocolate-chip-specific items while the entire rest of the baked-goods universe is labeled “biscuits,” congratulations—you’ve just stepped into one of the great linguistic battlegrounds of our time. Welcome to the debate of:Cookie vs. Biscuit.
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Dec 2, 20252 min read


🇬🇧 The Art of the British Moan-British quirk 28/30
There’s something quietly tender about the whole ritual.It’s not about being grumpy.It’s
about being human—together.
Because beneath every British moan is a tiny message:
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Nov 25, 20252 min read


The Art of British Self-Defamation: Notes from an American Living Awake in the U.K. (British Quirk 27/30)
It’s not quite humility, not quite insecurity. It’s something more intricate — a kind of social aikido, a preemptive strike of modesty before anyone dares to call you confident.
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Nov 12, 20252 min read
British Quirk #26: Sarcasm & Irony — The National Sports You Didn’t Know Existed
Discover the British love affair with sarcasm and irony — a national pastime that confuses Americans and charms everyone else. An American living in the UK unpacks how British humour works (and how not to miss the joke). “Oh, brilliant…” — When It’s Not Brilliant at All One of the first things you learn living in the UK — right after figuring out what a “cuppa” is — is that “brilliant” doesn’t always mean brilliant . Sometimes it means the opposite. Example? Your friend tells
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Nov 4, 20253 min read


Blazers, Ties, and Knee-High Socks: Discovering British School Uniforms (British Quirks 25/30)
British school uniforms are more than just clothing—they’re part of a long-standing tradition. Some schools have worn the same colors and styles for over a century. Ties, blazers, and badges communicate house affiliation, seniority, and sometimes even sporting prowess.
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Oct 28, 20252 min read
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